DECISION MAKING

I know there are things that you've got to seek consultation and/or assistance, things that you need help for you to achieve. Yeah, it may be a material thing, an endeavor, or anything you have in mind.

But would you still seek or accept assistance if the things that you want will eventually be gone? Would you still need help to the point that you have to sacrifice something?

FOR CRYING OUT LOUD!!

Am I not old enough to decide for myself? My parents doesn't even interfere on the decisions I make for myself! But why you guys are so into judging and commenting about my work? Am I a burden? I'm able to help my family with household expenses. I'm being productive. I earn big! What's the problem? Is it because I work at a call center company? So what?! What's wrong with being a call center agent?! I don't care if it is something that you cannot be proud of, but it's none of your business anymore.

I greatly appreciate your concern regarding my "abnormal" work hours, and you wanted me to "grow" (for whatever meaning of "grow" you wanna imply) but I'm perfectly fine with what I'm doing. You've mentioned that IT has nothing to do with my FRIENDS, so I'm really praying that you stop bugging me about my work.

I do understand about your concern, but please, let me feel that I am an independent woman, that I can speak and decide for myself, that I can manage my life. I know it feels good that you have someone to seek assistance for a couple of decision-making. But if I need your help, I know I can always run to you for help. At this point, I'm perfectly fine. I'll let you know if I need help.

But not now.